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They can say no without regret and are willing to step aside to let others shine. Healthy Enneagram type 8’s will lean into their ability to take charge while also carefully measuring how much energy and resources they can genuinely devote to a course of action. Their concern and empathy are sincere rather than a facade to advance their needs. In higher levels of health, an Enneagram eight is upbeat, encouraging, and supportive voices in the lives of others. They focus on using their leadership and influence to serve others and create good for those who may have less or face difficulty. They want others to view them as strong, so they work hard to resist weakness, dominate their surroundings, and take control of their lives.Ī healthy enneagram type 8 can be very generous, kind, and considerate of others. While many eights can use their anger or other intense emotions to propel themselves forward, it can become a difficult challenge for others.Įnneagram Eights want to prove themselves, so they are naturally motivated and self-reliant. If there is seemingly no regard for their ideas or someone reacts with anger or spite, the conflict can quickly worsen.Īnger is an emotion that is strongly connected to type Eight personalities because they are a part of the Gut Triad. Type Eights are comfortable expressing their opinions, even if others don’t like to hear them. They are comfortable standing up for themselves however, it is easy for conflicts to escalate to anger if an eight is not careful. They thrive in positions of power, especially when defending matters of justice.Įights rarely fear confrontation. An enneagram type 8 is confident and bold, so they aren’t afraid to stand up for what they believe is right. Eights like to be in charge of their surroundings, and they defend their beliefs and opinions fiercely.
#ENNEAGRAM 3 DISINTEGRATION FULL#
Living as an enneagram type eight is often a life full of motivation and leadership.
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They want other people to recognize their talents and may hype up their successes in order to feel accepted and become affiliated with others. They become more competitive and self-promotional in order to compensate for their growing feelings of inferiority. When this happens, they become manipulative, dishonest, and unfaithful in order to save their own skin. If stress continues, Sixes can disintegrate to Three. They also work hard in order to gain financial security or a sense of control. They don’t want to be abandoned or rejected so they look for allies to bolster their security. On top of this, they feel obliged to meet other people’s needs in order to get support and approval in return. They might look for community or authority to help guide them back to a path of security. They feel plagued by self-doubt, insecurity, and poor confidence. When Sixes experience stress, they become more true to type initially. I don't genuinely believe those things, but deep in my Shadow I believe there's a place for that.ĭo any other 6s relate? I'm most likely a Social 6 basing off how I disintegrate, so knowing the instinctual variant could influence the effects I assume? This has also put me in a NatSoc/Neo-Nazi phase multiple times throughout life which I'm not particularly proud of.
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If anything, I withdraw further into myself, stewing in my hatred and bigotry towards my perceived enemies. I do not at all relate to being a workaholic when under stress. It's like I'm in "war mode" or something. Usually I do this because it feels good to know my and their places. If someone I hate is Asian, then I'll hate all Asians (ironically though, I'm Asian myself). If someone I hate is Spanish, then I'll hate all Spaniards. I primarily show that side of me when I start pidgeonholing people into neat categories to shame and spit at. "Competitive and arrogant"? I'd assume yes. However, I'm very confused on how 6s disintegrate to 3 since it's different for so many people. I feel certain that my core is 6 and the most accurate representation of my true essence from the Enneagram.